Preschool educators have the toughest jobs in education. Children are stepping into a school for the first time, and many aren’t ready for that level of concentration. It’s difficult to reach every four-year-old in the class and kickstart their elementary education. Fortunately, most preschool teachers are equipped to handle your children, but what things won’t they say to you?

Does the Child Have Emotional Problems?

Preschool educators are never going to meet a parent on the first day of school and ask about emotional issues. It isn’t exactly proper to ask that sort of question and many parents are likely to be offended too. It is, however, something the teacher needs to know about. 

Often, teachers can be gentle and adapt to the needs of the child. You need to put your trust in the educator so they can support your child. 

Sick Children Shouldn’t Be in School

Educators don’t blame the parent for sending a sick child to school. Sometimes, they come to school sick but others without so much of a sniffle, and then the symptoms manifest themselves as the day goes on. Most PreK educators, however, don’t want to see children walking into class with runny noses or stomach bugs. They would much prefer to keep the child at home to prevent the bug from spreading around the class. 

Let the Child Do More

Educators get frustrated when they see parents babying their children, even at the elementary age. The fact is some children are more advanced than their parents give them credit for. So, while the teacher is unlikely to say it to your face, they think it’s time you let the child do more for themselves. It isn’t about being a lazy parent, it’s allowing a child to have some independence. 

Don’t Freak Out Over Muddy Clothes

Children get dirty. They play around with friends and end up with grazed knees and muddied clothes. It isn’t a big deal; however, you don’t see it that way, especially when the clothes cost a lot of money. PreK educators won’t say it, but they think it’s a bad idea to send four-year children to school with expensive clothing. If they do get dirty, don’t freak out, it’s natural. 

Listen to the Teacher’s Point of View

Parents get angry when they hear their child has been hurt. It worries you someone has put a hand on your child or unfairly treated them. You never want to think maybe there is more to the story than meets the eye. While the PreK educator won’t say it, they want you to listen to their side of the story before you jump to conclusions.

Think Before you React

Preschool is tough for children, parents, and teachers alike. Children are overwhelmed by their new surroundings, and you worry about if they’re getting along with others. PreK teachers, however, must monitor and educate each child. It is hard work and requires patience on a whole new level. They won’t say all the things they should, so be a smart parent and your PreK teacher will be very grateful.