It’s normal for parents to sometimes feel too tired or busy to play with their children. When this happens, it’s important to communicate with your child in a way that is understanding and respectful. Here are some of the best things you can say:

1. “I love spending time with you, but right now I need to finish some work. How about we set aside time later today just for playing your favorite game?”

2. “Right now I’m feeling a bit tired and need to rest, but I am looking forward to hearing about the adventure you’re imagining!”

3. “Mommy/Daddy has some adult tasks to do at the moment, but why don’t you draw a picture of what we can play later, and then we can do it together?”

4. “I really enjoy our playtime, but at this moment I have to take care of some chores. How about you help me out and then we’ll have extra time to play afterward?”

5. “You’re so good at playing on your own! Why don’t you start building/creating, and then show me what you’ve done after I finish up here?”

6. “I know you want us to play now, but it’s important for adults to do certain things right now. Let’s read a book together tonight as our special activity.”

7. “Let’s make a plan! If you give me some quiet time to get these things done, we’ll take a walk to the park later.”

Remember, the key is to acknowledge your child’s desire to play while respectfully setting boundaries for your own needs. Offering alternatives or a promise of future playtime can help make your child feel valued and understood.