The first day of school, whether pre-kindergarten or elementary, can be difficult for a child who has never attended before. As a parent, you may have done your homework at your child’s new school and feel fairly confident in the surroundings. However, like with any new experience, the adjustment may be too much for a little child to take. On the first day of school, they will require your assistance in ways that educators may not be able to supply. You and your child are on the right track to a tear-free first day of school if you follow the simple guidelines below.

Methods for a Tear-Free First Day

If possible, go to the school before the first day. Schedule a visit and meet the educators and other individuals with whom your kid will interact throughout the school year. Allowing your child to become acquainted with their new learning environment before the big day prepares them for what to expect with such a significant adjustment.

Read a few age-appropriate stories about changing environments and beginning school. Kids can tie their big day to some of the enjoyable stories they’ve been reading by hearing about other characters going through similar situations. Audrey Penn’s The Kissing Hand, for example, relates the story of a nervous little raccoon attending school for the first time and being away from his mother for the first time. They develop a unique affinity with one another regardless of where they are in the globe.

Make a fun drawing or journal book of topics your child wishes to learn about at school. Use a variety of interesting materials (crayons, markers, paint) to create a visual representation of learning. Visually developing good thoughts about a new school experience is an excellent method to reinforce a happy mindset toward the first day!

Go shopping for school supplies together. If there is a list of items required for the school year, now is a great time to start preparing for the big day with your child. Before kids ever reach the facility, the process of acquiring needed goods for school can start a conversation about what they can expect from the school and generate a sense of familiarity.

Bring a present for the teacher. This can be homemade or purchased (either method is unique), but giving a present to your child’s new teacher can help to create the loving bond that is required in a new environment. While the gift is for the instructor, your child is starting to realize that this new person who will be guiding them in class is significant and very special. A favorable impression of the teacher will lead to a favorable impression of the entire experience!

Breathe. While your child may be experiencing new emotions, you may be feeling melancholy about your child’s departure. And that’s fine! The start of a new school year is an exciting time! And, while it may not be easy, it is well worth the effort! You two can do it!

Are there any other ways for parents to have a tear-free first day of school?