I gave my kids a summer like mine in the 1980s – every parent should try it
Remember the summers of our childhood? The endless days of unstructured play, skinned knees, and imagination running wild? This year, I decided to give my kids a taste of that 1980s magic – and the results were nothing short of amazing.
In an age of screens and scheduled activities, I yearned for my children to experience the freedom and adventure that defined my own childhood summers. So, I unplugged the Wi-Fi, hid the tablets, and set out to recreate the essence of those bygone days.
We started with the classics: building forts in the backyard using old sheets and clothespins. The living room became a cardboard box city, limited only by their creativity. Trips to the local park weren’t just about the playground – we brought along magnifying glasses for impromptu bug hunts and kites for breezy afternoons.
Rainy days weren’t spent indoors glued to screens. Instead, we rediscovered the joy of board games and jigsaw puzzles. I taught them how to play MASH (Mansion, Apartment, Shack, House) and watched as they giggled over their imaginary futures.
The kitchen became a hub of activity as we made homemade popsicles and attempted to recreate the perfect slushie. Yes, it was messy, but the pride on their faces as they slurped their creations was priceless.
As the weeks went by, I noticed a shift. My kids were more engaged, more creative, and frankly, happier. They bickered less and collaborated more. Their imaginations flourished, turning simple objects into grand adventures. Most importantly, they were present – fully immersed in each moment rather than waiting for the next notification.
To my fellow parents, I say this: Give it a try. You don’t have to go full 1980s for the entire summer. Start with a week, or even a few days. Ban the screens, dust off the board games, and let your kids experience the kind of summer we once knew.
Yes, they might complain at first. But watch as they discover the joy of unstructured time, the thrill of creating their own fun, and the satisfaction of overcoming boredom through imagination.
This summer taught me that while times have changed, the essence of childhood remains the same. Our kids don’t need constant entertainment or the latest gadgets. They need time, space, and the freedom to just be kids.
So, next summer, why not take a trip back in time? You might just find that in giving your children a taste of your past, you’re actually giving them the tools for a more imaginative, connected, and joyful future.