Step 1: Choose your drink

Before you approach the bar, know what you want to order. Decide if you prefer a beer, wine, cocktail or a non-alcoholic beverage.

Step 2: Know your preferences

When ordering cocktails or mixed drinks, identify your preferences for base spirits (e.g., gin, vodka), sweetness level, and desired flavor profile.

Step 3: Research the menu

Most bars have menus that feature their drink options. Take some time to peruse the menu and see if any drinks catch your eye.

Step 4: Wait patiently for your turn

If the bar is busy, patiently wait for your turn to order. Establishing eye contact with the bartender lets them know you’re waiting to place an order.

Step 5: Have your ID ready

If you look underage or are in a new place, have your ID ready as proof of age for the bartender before they serve alcohol.

Step 6: Be clear and concise with your order

When it’s your turn, clearly state your drink order or ask any questions about the menu choices. Avoid using vague terms such as “make it strong” or “something sweet.”

Step 7: Specify size and add-ons

If the establishment offers different sizes for drinks (e.g., small or large), make sure to specify which one you want. Also mention any add-ons such as extra ice or garnishes.

Step 8: Consider ordering multiple drinks together

If you’re ordering for a group of friends, bundle all orders into one to save time and avoid confusion for both you and the bartender.

Step 9: Be polite and respectful

Treat bartenders with courtesy and respect—they’ll appreciate it and may even offer better service in return.

Step 10: Always prepare payment

While waiting for the drinks, get your cash or card ready to streamline the payment transaction.

Step 11: Know the cost of your drink

Most bars display pricing on their menu or have identifiable price ranges, make sure you understand the cost of your order before agreeing to it.

Step 12: Tip appropriately

In countries where tipping is customary, ensure you tip based on the quality of service and local customs. Generally, this ranges from 15-20% of the total bill.

Step 13: Enjoy your drink responsibly

Sip and savor your beverage at your leisure without overindulging. Remember, it’s essential to drink responsibly and have a plan for getting home.

Step 14: Closing the tab

If you’ve opened a tab, close it properly by settling up with your bartender before leaving.

Step 15: Thank the bartender

Before leaving, express your gratitude to the bartender for their service. It can make a difference in their day and leave a good lasting impression.