Comedienne and actress Molly Shannon recently made a bold statement, urging parents to shift their perspective on raising teenagers. She argues that the typical “teenager angst” narrative is often a product of parental attitudes, and encourages a more supportive and understanding approach.

Shannon, a mother of two, believes that parents often enter the teen years with a preconceived notion of difficulty and rebellion. This can lead to heightened anxieties and unnecessary conflict. “Instead of expecting the worst,” she suggests, “try seeing their awkwardness, their passion, their desire to explore as part of a natural developmental process.”

Shannon emphasizes the importance of open communication and genuine curiosity. Instead of dismissing teenage interests as “silly” or “irrelevant,” parents should engage with them, ask questions, and learn alongside their children. “They’re trying to figure out who they are, just like we did at that age,” she says.

Shannon’s message is a timely reminder that the teenage years, while challenging, can also be a time of immense growth and discovery. By shifting our attitudes from fear to understanding, we can create a more supportive environment for our teenagers to thrive.